you see u can't help someone who dont admit that she is facing problem and refuses it and pushing the blames to someone else....i learn that the hard way....and when you have a family member like that....it tends to pull the whole family down with them....no matter whether we want or we dont want to....the family are all tied together and we need to face it together until the target decided to move on....
however the move on target came back....and now that problem that was gone became a problem again.....