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  1. @mademoiselle @OsmanthusTea in the drama Buyi always know Ling Yi is his father's killer. There was a flashback shown in one of the OST where he saw LingYi kill his father. But I think he also want to know everything that happens that cause the City falls and also the delayed help from the others. I can understand because in his shoulder he's carrying the weight of the his family, Gu City's poeple and also indirectly all the people that died wanting to help like Qian An Wang... How to forgive.. how can he forgive.... Sigh...

     

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    On a side note.. watching all the sweet scenes.. while also having the God's perspective as an audience makes my stomach hurt... because the elephant in the room (Buyi''s secret) is so loud!!!! I dread knowing how hurt SS will be.. Yet, I cannot stop watching.... 

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    On another hand... I'm glad the show is maintaining the imperfect theme of all the characters. 

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    81 is correct... yuefei is correct.. yet the emperor is also correct.... why the emperor did not pursue anymore.. IMHO was because the people's are dead.. its not that he's sheltering the guilty people.. but he want to look forward.. what he's trying to maintain is the stability of the nation. So I do understand his side. 

    Yet.. 81 is also not wrong... In my mind I'm circling back the my argument.. How can he forgive???? Sigh...

     

    Poor SS...  

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  2. 18 minutes ago, OsmanthusTea said:

    As a self-taught handyman or handywoman, SS crafted a fake tiger seals. But she didn't know that the original one are magnetic. So if ZS didn't swap it with the real one, CP will be punishes for losing the seals and SS will be implicated for crafted a fake one.

    and even if its not found out now.. it can goes out later.. so it's like a hanging sword on SS... sigh... 

     

    In today's episode...  I really like this shot.. 

    They're not perfect.. far from it; their past experience made it so...., but they're learning to compromise.. and I find it realistic.

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  3. LingBuYi, for your sake, I will forget the whole breakfast awkward scene and scrub it from my mind... and I know so you do you.... and everyone else to be honest

    HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH... :lmao2::lmao2::lmao2:

     

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    Joking aside, I know that he's trying...  in his own way, he's trying.. altho  poor SS... she's under a lot of pressure.... sigh... and this makes me mad all over again... 

     

    1 hour ago, abs-oluteM said:

    This won't be a frictionless relationship ( and that is the case with all marriages), so it will be interesting to see how they handle & navigate those differences between them. 

    Yes.. for me, the growth process in their relationship feels very realistic.. 

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  4. 15 minutes ago, OsmanthusTea said:

    I put NiaoNiao's Mother side by side with Ling Xiao's Mother (Go Ahead Drama) in The Hall of Toxic Mothers in Cdramaland. I just can't with these two....:shocked:

    Omg.. you're not the only thinking about this.... I know CC.. I know.. they're so frustrating in how they parent their child. 

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  5. 53 minutes ago, NiteWalker said:

    it just doesnt get too tired watching them together 

    I know right? I find that Glory is very rare for me... its like even if we re-watch this drama years from now.. we'll still feel this happy feeling they bring... 

    just the other day... I saw a short clip on youtube.. and I still have a big smile just because of the drama.. 

     

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  6. The mother also can't stop comparing CSS with yangyang which further the conflict.CSS may seem uncaring about it, but it doesn't mean that the mother's attitude doesn't hurt.. sigh..

    One thing I'm glad to be pointed out in the show is that CSS knows clearly that yangyang is not at fault and still like the cousin..  while another sad part of me also think CSS also knows CY longer.. from snippets of conversation in the earlier episodes, CY also helps CSS from time to time in the past.. so she knows her cousins better than her mother.... her cousin is timid, yet has a kind heart.. if anything else, they both suffer because of the second aunt - altho one is lighter than the others.  

     

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  7. 8 minutes ago, NiteWalker said:

    however im lucky....my mother do care for me in her own ways and she and me came to an understanding together...it wasnt easy to be honest to reach that...however it can always be done if both are willing to take a step back and came to a more neutral ground...

    -big hug angie... i also know that I'm not the best daughter out there.. sometimes I think I'm to cold to my own family... lol...

     

    8 minutes ago, NiteWalker said:

    treating one another with respect...

    yes.. this is their biggest issue isn't it?... 

     

    nevertheless.. sometimes.. it is what it is... it will come to a point where do you want to keep struggling with the never ending issue.. or do you want to have a peace of mind by accepting that not everything has to work out and move forward with your life. 

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  8. 5 minutes ago, NiteWalker said:

    she was shown some pampering and love was only by the queen...the queen was loving with her...and smiles and laugh at her mistakes and encourage her again in such a motherly way...that something CSS craft for....

    Exactly.. the queen gives her the motherly love and also care that she needs... and I'm here for that........ 

     

     

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    2 hours ago, NiteWalker said:

    i get it the mother intention are good...however that not how you do it to your child either....

    CSS has been shown to have both parents characteristic.. but she's not raised by them.. and sadly they view her first by her mistakes and the people who raised her; ie Second aunt...

    While saying this, I do think the mother has a lot of guilty feeling towards CSS, but her reflections always comes a step too late, and she bounced back to her ego and justifications afterward. It doesn't help that they operates like water and oil.. similar.. but not exactly the same... she's not a bad person.. just not the mother that's suitable for CSS, so as much as she questions CSS motives, CSS will also questions her motives. 

    Sadly.. this is not uncommon...  just yesterday.. a friend tell me.. that CSS's experienced reminder her of how her friend's relationship with her mother.. she was raised by her grandmother.. because the parent have to work overseas.. and when they come back years later.. they always have problems communicating... 

     

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